Most men have the same resolutions for the new year: get that new promotion, stop cursing and hitting the gym harder to get those abs rock hard for the ladies.
After all, what’s the use of working out hard in the gym if it wasn’t to attract the opposite sex. You see, your sexual health is just as important as any exercise you do in the gym, and more fun too.
That being said, one of your resolutions for 2013 is to do better in bed. Stick to them for the sake of the woman (women) in your life.
No more comfort zones:
Newsflash! Your girlfriend knows what’s coming next. If you are one of those guys who just goes through the motions, it is best you just don’t do it at all. For 2013 rid yourself of what you know already works and try something new. She would be pleasantly surprised. Who knows maybe you would too.
All outdoors, all the time:
Sex in the bedroom is so last year. For 2013, leave no room, counter top, chair or flat surface unscathed. If you have already touched every room in your house or apartment think outdoors. This one goes out to people who have been in relationships for a while, spontaneity is the key to life.
Embrace your Fantasies:
Every man has some freaky sh!t he wants to do with his girl but is afraid to bring it up because she might think he’s a pervert. To hell with that! In 2013, tell her what you want to do with her, without apology.
A woman who is secure within herself will never be turned off by your fantasies, even if they border on weird. Engage in conversation with her, start by asking her about her fantasies that she’s never mentioned before.
Hit up that new Spot
By now you should be familiar with all the spots that turn your girl on.
But why stop there? Find some spots that others may have overlooked or better yet, find a spot that neither she nor you knew existed.
This works whether it is your longtime lover or first time jumpoff.
Toys ‘R’ Us:
Whips, handcuffs, some whip cream….better yet build a kit that you can dip into when things seem a bit mundane. There are stores right here in Trinidad that are dedicated to supplying such toys.
Trying out new stuff like this will definitely take your sex life to the next level. Being open-minded about this is key and the novelty of this will surely last for a while, and breathe new life into your bedroom.
We can never say this enough. Wrap that sh!t up everytime, especially in this Carnival season where caution is so often thrown to the wind. Commit to being vigilant in avoiding STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
